God, Not Instagram: Finding Your Worth Where It Matters

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Discovering Your True Worth Beyond the Scroll

Let’s be real — social media can leave us feeling like we’re not enough. With endless scrolling through perfectly curated feeds, it’s easy to start comparing our lives to others and feel like we fall short. But guess what? God says we’re already more than enough! Psalm 139:14 reminds us that we are "fearfully and wonderfully made." This truth changes everything, and it’s time we start living like we believe it.

Step 1: Start With Gratitude

When you don’t know where to start, begin with gratitude. Take a moment to reflect on Psalm 139:14 and let it sink in. Imagine God’s hands lovingly shaping you, weaving together every detail of who you are with care and purpose. How amazing is that? Now, grab your journal and write down five things about yourself that reflect God’s unique design in you. Maybe it’s your creativity, your ability to encourage others, or your resilience. Then, thank Him for each one. Speak it out loud if you can—let your gratitude echo in your heart. Seeing yourself through His loving eyes will shift your perspective in the most beautiful way.

Jeremiah 29:11: "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope."

Think of Joseph in the Bible. After being sold into slavery, falsely accused, and imprisoned, Joseph could have given up. Yet, he trusted God’s plan and ultimately became a ruler in Egypt, saving many lives during a famine. Like Joseph, God’s plans for you are filled with hope and purpose, even when the path seems unclear.

Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths."

Consider Ruth, who left everything familiar to follow her mother-in-law, Naomi, and embrace a new faith. Her trust in God led her to Boaz, her kinsman-redeemer, and a place in the lineage of Jesus. Trusting God with your worth means letting Him guide your steps, even when life feels uncertain.

Isaiah 43:4: "Because you are precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you."

Remember Esther, a young woman who risked her life to save her people. She stood boldly, knowing she was precious in God’s eyes. Her courage came from understanding her worth in Him. You, too, are deeply loved and honored by God. Hold onto that truth when doubts creep in.

Step 2: Identify Lies and Replace Them With Truth

Social media often feeds us lies about what it takes to be worthy. It’s time to identify those lies and replace them with God’s truth. Philippians 4:8 gives us a beautiful blueprint for healthy thinking:

"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things."

Let’s break this down:

True: Focus on truths about yourself that come from God’s Word. For example, "I am loved" (John 3:16) and "I am chosen" (1 Peter 2:9). Write these truths down and revisit them when doubts creep in.

Noble: Think about the high calling God has placed on your life. What are the noble qualities He’s shaping in you? Perhaps it’s your integrity or your commitment to serve others.

Right: Align your thoughts with what is right in God’s eyes. This might mean replacing envy with gratitude or pride with humility. Ask yourself, "Is this thought leading me closer to God’s will?"

Pure: Guard your heart by focusing on purity. This doesn’t just mean avoiding sin—it also means keeping your mind free from toxic influences. Limit time on social media if it’s causing negativity.

Lovely: Meditate on what’s beautiful in God’s creation and in your life. It could be the love of your family, a sunrise, or a kind word from a friend. Let these lovely moments fill your mind.

Admirable: Reflect on qualities you admire in others who walk closely with God. Maybe it’s their faithfulness, patience, or courage. Strive to cultivate these qualities in yourself.

Excellent and Praiseworthy: Celebrate the good things God is doing in your life and in the lives of others. Praise Him for His faithfulness and provision.

Journaling Step:

Write out these categories (true, noble, right, etc.) in your journal and list at least one thought or example for each. Use this as a guide when you feel overwhelmed or unsure of where your thoughts are leading you.

If you’re tempted to think, "I’ll never measure up," replace that with: "God has created me for a purpose, and I am equipped for every good work" (Ephesians 2:10).

Focus on what is true, noble, and praiseworthy about who God says you are.

Step 3: Take Action With Intentional Self-Care

True self-worth is not found in endless striving but in embracing God’s love for you. It is not about chasing perfection, achieving accolades, or earning validation from others. It’s not defined by the number of followers you have, the likes on your photos, or the opinions of those around you. True self-worth comes from understanding that you are already loved, chosen, and enough because of who you are in Christ. God’s love for you is unwavering, unconditional, and unchanging. When you root your identity in His love, you can stop striving and start resting in the beautiful truth of who He has made you to be. Schedule intentional self-care time that focuses on spiritual growth and renewal. Whether it’s reading a devotional, spending time in prayer, or taking a walk while meditating on God’s promises, these moments will fill you up in ways social media never can.

Ephesians 2:10: "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them."

Moment of Reflection:

You are God’s masterpiece—a unique work of art lovingly crafted by the Creator Himself. Every detail about you was made with intention and care. Imagine an artist working diligently on a painting, pouring heart and soul into each brushstroke. That’s how God views you. You’re not a random creation; you’re purposeful, designed for good works that He has already planned for you to walk in. Let this truth silence insecurities and fill you with confidence. God has given you value and a mission to fulfill in His Kingdom.

So you're wondering...

What if my insecurities make me feel like I’m not enough to walk in the good works God has prepared for me?

When insecurities whisper that you’re not enough, remember Philippians 4:13: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." God doesn’t call the qualified; He qualifies the called. He equips you with the strength and resources you need to fulfill His purpose. Rest in His promise and trust that your worth is rooted in Him, not in your abilities or what the world says about you.

Write down one insecurity you’re struggling with and a corresponding truth from God’s Word to replace it. Lean on His truth as you step into the works He has lovingly prepared for you.

Tools For Your Journey:

Christian Journals:

The Well-Watered Woman: Rooted in Truth, Growing in Grace, Flourishing in Faith

The Prayer Journal for Women: 52 Weeks of Scripture, Guided Prayer, and Reflection by Shannon Roberts

Prayer Journals:

Self-Love Workbook for Women: Release Self-Doubt, Build Self-Compassion, and Embrace Who You Are (Self-Love Workbook and Journal)

Grace Is Enough: A 30-Day Christian Devotional to Help Women Turn Anxiety and Insecurity into Confidence

Books on Self-Worth:

You Are Free: Be Who You Already Are by Rebekah Lyons

Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely by Lysa TerKeurst

Step 4: Journal and Pray Boldly

Wrap up your reflection by journaling a prayer. Pour out your heart to God, sharing the areas where you struggle with self-worth, the lies you want to replace with His truth, and the insecurities you’re ready to surrender. Ask Him to help you see yourself as He sees you—precious, loved, and equipped for His purposes.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for creating me as Your masterpiece, for loving me so deeply and unconditionally. Lord, I bring You my insecurities, the times I’ve doubted my worth, and the moments I’ve sought validation in the wrong places. Help me to embrace the truth that I am valuable, I am loved, I am qualified, and I am forgiven because of You. Teach me to see myself through Your eyes and walk confidently in the good works You’ve prepared for me. Renew my mind with thoughts that are true, noble, and lovely, and remind me daily that Your love is the foundation of my worth. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

I challenge you, repeat this affirmation daily:

- I am valuable.

- I am loved.

- I am qualified.

- I am forgiven.

Let these words take root in your heart as you step into your God-given identity with boldness and joy.

Are you ready to take a bold step toward seeing yourself through God’s eyes?

What is one commitment you will make today to trust Him with your worth and not look to Instagram for validation? Write it down, and let this be the beginning of a new chapter in your journey of faith and self-worth.

with faith and encouragement, Shawnda--

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